Apr 04 2007
Coincidence
Daily I am reminded of how magical life is. The other day I experienced what most of the world would consider coincidence, but what I have come to realize is simply using my tools.
Merriam-Webster lists one of the definitions of coincidence, in part, as: “the occurrence of events that happen at the same time by accident but seem to have some connection…” [my emphasis]
With all due respect to Merriam-Webster, it is no “accident,” and it does not “seem” to have a connection, it does have a connection.
A couple good friends had come back to town for a visit, and I knew it would be a few days before we could get together since they have family here. I had headed out to the market and got the urge to stop for lunch at a local restaurant, and the thought occurred to me that my friends may be there. I followed the urge and when I went in there were no tables available, so they took my name and the names of the three or four parties that had come in behind me. As I stood off to the side, three of the parties that had come in after me were called and seated. I was about to remind them that they had passed me over, when my friends came around the corner. They were indeed there having lunch with family, and if I had been seated first, I would very likely have missed them.
Quite a while ago I realized that every time I experienced a “coincidence” it was always proceeded by me thinking about the subject of the coincidence. I no longer call it coincidence, it is quite simply a case of expanded awareness, and manifestation. And the thing about it is, even those that are not on a path to expanded awareness, use these tools, but unconsciously. As I mentioned in my last post, Expanded awareness in everyday life once you step onto the path, a whole host of tools become available to you. Once you begin to use those tools consciously you start to experience magic in your life.
If you have not been paying attention to coincidences in your life, you may want to start. I think that in a short while you will, as I did, realize it is something entirely different; no accident.
Use the tools, they are yours, standard equipment for life on earth. If you need some information, take a deep breath, connect, and tell upstairs what you need. Do not worry about whether you have actually connected or not, as you will soon realize intent is the key. I also suggest you do not place limits on how that information should be delivered. In my experience, it is best to let upstairs decide. They always use the most efficient method. And remember to let go of the request, don’t keep checking in on it, thinking about it, or holding on to it. Be open and aware for as I have discovered, the answers can come from the most unexpected places. Go on with life and what you need will come to you. As always, keep i mind that an “attitude of gratitude creates a space for grace.”

Hi Richard
Greetings from Malaysia! Congrats on the webiste… it’s truly magical. You are absolutely right .. there is no such thing as coincidence. My life has been magical ever since I am aware of this … synchronicities happen every day. I can go on and on. I feel as though I am on a spiritual path … it’s magic, really.
I call myself A woman of change - employee-entrepreneur-author columnist-speaker- and now inspirer and who knows what next?
I am now writing a children’s book and waiting for more magic to happen. A magical publisher is on the way …
Please visit my website and I would love to hear from you.
FUZIMAGIC IS IN THE AIR!
Cheers
Fuzi Hanim
Malaysia
Hello Fuzi
Thank you for stopping by and for the nice comments. Yes life is magical and like you, I experience synchronicity every day. You sound like a very busy woman and like you, I know that magical publisher is just around the corner.
Be well,
Rich
Thank You very much Rich.
Fuzi
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